Dayoff

A DM-first social app No comments. No followers.

Post what's on your mind. Anyone who wants to talk replies to you privately.

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The moods

Share a mood. Find some company.

Bored, festive, a little distracted. Pick a mood, add what's going on, or let the mood speak for itself. Give someone a way to say “same here.”

The profile

Give them something to open with

Trust isn't a badge here. It's how much of yourself you filled in.

Every line you fill in is a reason to answer. Bio, tags, an Intro, five things you'd defend — a profile someone can read is a profile someone can decide about.

Music plays where it sits. Drop a Spotify, Apple Music or YouTube link on a song and it opens inside your profile, no tab to leave.

So nobody arrives cold. They've read you before they say a word, and the DM opens on one of your picks instead of "hey".

Maya
@maya

Night-shift nurse. I read too much sci-fi and I'm always halfway through a record.

Looking to chat Start a chat Intro
Party
My idea of a perfect party: it runs out of chairs, and that's when it gets good.
Reply to this Party intro
Sci-fi Vinyl Slow mornings Night owl
Top 5
1
Song
Hyperballad
Björk
1:125:21
Playing from her Spotify link
2
Film
Arrival
Denis Villeneuve
3
Book
Piranesi
Susanna Clarke
4
Song
It's My Life
Talk Talk
5
Show
Severance
Apple TV+
Explore Dayoff
You decide who reaches you.

Posting means you're open to messages — but you choose who can start one. No open inbox, no pile-ups, no drive-by DMs.

Who can message you
31–41 Anyone

Men and everyone else aged 31–41 can message you. Women: anyone.

Require a visible age

They'll need an age on their own profile to reach you.

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Public profile
Built for fewer, deeper conversations.

No crowd to perform for. One person at a time, and the space to actually talk.

Maya
Slow Tuesdays are the best 🌤️
Right? Just us and the coffee ☕
So — what are you reading lately?
A post becomes a conversation.

Share what's on your mind. You set who the right person is — by age, by gender — and only they can reply in a DM. You take it from there.

You ☕ WFH
Craving a real conversation today, not a feed to scroll.
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I'm around — what are you into?
Say how you're feeling.

Every post carries a mood — relaxed, WFH, cooking — so people reach out over something real.

Set your mood
😌 Relaxed 💻 WFH 🏖️ Dayoff 😴 Sleepy 🍳 Cooking
What we mean by connection
A connection, to me, means you've built a real relationship — you're actually interested in getting to know the other person. Not just replying in a feed and never hearing from them again. That's not a connection to me.
What Dayoff is
Dayoff is a DM-first social space — the conversation is the product, not an afterthought bolted onto a feed. It's built for people who'd rather have a few real exchanges than perform for a crowd. Profiles are invitations to talk, not walls to like.
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